Voluntary austerity and forced austerity

In the Srimad Bhagavatam (10.10.15) is mentioned: “A poverty-stricken man must automatically undergo austerities and penances because he does not have the wealth to possess anything. Thus his false prestige is vanquished. Always in need of food, shelter and clothing, he must be satisfied with what is obtained by the mercy of providence. Undergoing such compulsory austerities is good for him because this purifies him and completely frees him from false ego.”

In his purport, Srila Prabhupada reinforces this point, mentioning that “A saintly person voluntarily accepts a state of poverty just to become free from material false prestige. Many great kings left their princely standard of living and went to the forest to practice austerity according to Vedic culture, just to become purified. But if one who cannot voluntarily accept such austerity is put into a situation of poverty, he automatically must practice austerity.”

From this verse and purport we can take two interesting points:

1- Austerity is important (or even necessary) for advancing in spiritual life.
2- If we don’t accept austerities voluntarily, we will end having to accept forced hardships by the influence of the material nature.

Due to the laws of Karma and other influences, no one can go thought the material existence without experiencing hardships. People experience different types of pains, hardships and discomfort. A celebrity may not have to suffer with the bites of mosquitoes and other insects like a poor person living in a village, but may have to deal with the continuous gossips and cruel statements from people in social medias, which can be even more disturbing. A rich person will not experience scarcity of food, but still he may have to experience hunger due to diets, anorexia, or digestive problems, and so on. We face different types of difficulties in life, and some difficulties can be considered worse than others, but we all get our share.

Materialistic people suffer due to their past actions, under the influence of Karma, but as devotees we are supposed to be under the protection of Krsna. Thus, when we face difficulties, we may question: why Krsna is making me go through this? Did I committed some offense? I’m not being a good devotee? Krsna doesn’t love me?

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Are we observing festivals incorrectly?

When we go to India, we often see devotees not eating grains on the appearance days of incarnations of Krsna, just like we do on Ekadasis. A festival with some simple prasadam made without grains may sound very strange for one who is used to seeing huge feasts on Janmashtami and other special days, but older disciples of Srila Prabhupada indeed mention that they were instructed by Srila Prabhupada to observe the main festivals in a way that is considerably different from what we do today.

In the early days, devotees would observe Janmashtami by organizing a festival during the day, with kirtanas and other activities, then reading the Krsna Book until late at night, taking some very small prasadam at midnight to break the fast, and then fasting again on the next morning for the Vyasa-Puja of Srila Prabhupada, with the main prasadam being served after midday. A similar arrangement was done for Gaura Purnima.

Offerings would be cooked on the Janmashtami day, but the prasadam would be conserved and honored on the next day.

Over time, the practice gradually changed and nowadays we often have festivals where the Prasadam is distributed in the mid-afternoon. One may discuss what should be done or not according to different considerations, but here I’m just raising the idea that things changed over time.

In this connection, there is a letter from Srila Prabhupada from 12/03/1968, where he gives instructions on this point:

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– What exactly does “illicit sex” mean?

We all understand that we are the soul and not the body. Still, feeling and acting like a soul is not as easy as one may think. Going from a conditioned life to a completely liberated platform, where we completely stop caring about the body, is actually a long way.

Amongst different material activities, there are four that are very difficult to give up: eating tasty foods, sleeping, defending ourselves and our social position, and having sex life.

The first two are kind of straightforward in Krsna Consciousness: although there is a general recommendation we should try to reduce our eating and sleeping, there is no prohibition. One may very well eat as much prasadam as he wants, and sleep as much as necessary to keep his mind in order.

We also understand that excessive defense is counterproductive to spiritual life and that we should as far as possible depend on Krsna, but again there is no prohibition: one may also defend himself as he sees fit, just avoiding excesses.

In this way, we can see that there is no great difficulty harmonizing these three activities with Krsna Consciousness. We understand that the goal is to gradually minimize these propensities, but one may do this at his own pace, progressing during his or her life.

The greatest problem is sex life. Not only it’s the hardest to give up, but also the point where there are the most serious restrictions. This combination of strong desire and restrictions historically led to many problems, including celibates getting involved in sexual scandals, married men and women getting involved in extramarital affairs, divorces, and so on.

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Living in a virtual reality

With the platforms of virtual reality growing and becoming more realistic, many started to question what is reality. The fact is that what we call reality is just we way our brain interprets the different inputs it receives from the eyes, ears, and so on. Virtual reality exploits that to create virtual worlds that exist only inside the memory of a computer, creating artificial stimuli that are transmitted to our senses using a headset and other accessories. In this way, VR adds another layer of illusion on top of the illusion we are already in.

In reality, what we call “real life” is already a type of virtual reality. At least, that’s what the Vedas say. Even the date of when this simulation started is given: 155.522 trillion years ago, the date when our Universe was first created by Lord Brahma. Before that, there were other iterations in the form of other cycles of creation, and therefore our imprisonment here is practically beginningless.

The Vedas actually go further, saying that we are actually eternal beings, but somehow we got trapped in this simulation, and we have been inside it since then. What we call “death” is just the process of transference of our consciousness into a new phase of the simulation. Just like one may play with different avatars in different virtual worlds, we take birth on different planets and in different species of life. This process has been going on for so long that we have already forgotten that there is a real life outside of it.

How does this artificial reality work?

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How to find a serious and reliable devotee to become our wife or husband?

The whole purpose of family life in Krsna consciousness is to advance spiritually. When a materialistic person enters into family life, he is called “grhamedhi”, because his idea is to just increase his sense enjoyment. On the other hand, a devotee is called “grihastha” because his goal is to advance spiritually. His family life is an ashram, a base from which to advance to higher spheres of devotional service.

The difficult thing about family life in Krsna Consciousness is that it involves combining two things that may look incompatible at first: taking care of the material needs of a family and practicing a spiritual process.

Frequently we see these as two separate things, and as a result, we focus on one to the detriment of the other, or taking good care of our families but forgetting Krsna, or becoming very serious about sadhana and other aspects of devotional life but neglecting our families.

I remember once speaking with a second-generation devotee who narrated how sometimes his mother would be very engaged in serving in the temple and as a result, neglect taking care of the house, and how this led him to grow up having a negative image of devotees, seeing them as rivals for the attention of his mother, something that took him a long time to get over with. Many of us may commit similar mistakes.

What is the solution then? Considering our limited attention span, how can we do both things simultaneously? As always, the Bhagavad-Gita can give us some insight.

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Understanding the inconceivable

One of the points we are forced to face when we study the Srimad Bhagavatam is that there are many things we can’t understand. For example, in the first canto, it’s described how Maharaja Pariksit met Kali, Dharma, and Bhumi. One can question how such a meeting could be possible since none of the three are persons. Kali-Yuga is an age, just like Satya-Yuga or Treta-Yuga. Dharma is a concept, just like justice or greed, and the Earth is a planet. How could the three of them be present in physical forms in the same place, and how could a human being (whomever powerful) be able to meet them?

When faced with such descriptions is important to not fall into the same mistake as the frog in the well, an allegory that Prabhupada mentioned several times. Just like the frog in the well was trying to calculate the size of the ocean based on the measurement of his minute well, we shouldn’t think we can understand the workings of the Universe based on our limited experience since such an attempt will be futile.

The model of the Universe described in the Vedas is not only incredibly complex but also multidimensional, with the concept of the reality of beings at different stages of spiritual development being radically different. Many of us have difficulty even understanding the four-dimensional reality we live in (three dimensions plus time), which results in all the speculation about flat earth and so on, so what to say about understanding all these high dimensions?

One example of this is that the Vedas explain that all kinds of material manifestations, qualities, and energies have a predominating deity. Just like different forces of nature are controlled by demigods like Indra, Surya, and Vayu, qualities like envy, dishonesty, and even death have their predominating deities, living entities who are elected as controllers of such energies. We can imagine such predominating deities as beings similar to the demigods in nature.

Just as the wind doesn’t have a form, but the demigod who controls it does, the age of Kali in itself doesn’t have a form, but is controlled by Kali, who does. Similarly, the concept of Dharma has its controller, just as our planet also has. These are all subtle entities that can’t be seen by ordinary people, but that can be met by an elevated personality like Maharaja Pariksit.

In the first canto of Srimad Bhagavatam, it’s narrated that Maharaja Pariksit was able to tour the other realms of Jambudvipa, which are inaccessible to other human beings. This shows that he had access to higher dimensions that we don’t have access to nowadays. This explains how he could have this meeting with Kali, Dharma, and Bhumi, seeing them in their personal forms and interacting with them.

Other pastimes can be even harder to understand, like, for example, how Dhruva Maharaja could stay without breathing and moving for such long periods, or how Hiranyakashipu could continue living even after his body was completely eaten by the ants, keeping his vital air circulating around his bones. Certainly, such feats are not possible for a human being of our time, but we should keep in mind that such great personalities from past ages could do many things we are not capable of, by using techniques that are unknown to us.

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How life appeared in our planet, according to the Vedas

In paleontology, it’s believed that life on Earth started at about 3.5 billion years ago (with some studies putting the date earlier, up to 4.4 billion years ago), with the first multicellular animals (Metazoa) appearing about 800 million years ago. Of course, modern scholars attribute this to evolution and the shaping of the environment by Volcanic activity and other factors but the Srimad Bhagavatam offers another explanation that is quite interesting.

In the 4th canto of Srimad Bhagavatam, we hear the story of Daksa being killed by Virbhadra as a result of his offenses to Lord Shiva. Often we just take it as a pastime and don’t bother to check the dates, but when we do that we find it actually provides a fascinating explanation of how life appeared on our planet.

According to Srimad Bhagavatam, Daksa appeared during the reign of Svayambhuva Manu. The Bhagavatam explains that there are 14 manus in a day of Brahma, and I found that this sequence of Manus is the key to being able to understand the chronology of the different events being discussed.

Svayambhuva Manu is the first of the 14 manus, and his reign corresponds to the early history of our planet. When he took charge, Bhu-Mandala was still submerged in the water of the causal ocean, and white Lord Varaha had to appear to rescue it. The dates for these pastimes roughly correspond to what modern astronomers give for the formation of the planets in our solar system.

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What is normal?

Years ago, when our lives radically changed overnight because of the pandemic, people started questioning themselves about when things would go back to “normal”. However, we rarely stop to think what “normal” means in the first place.

Sometimes we think that to be “normal” means to be just like everyone else. For example, in the 1960s and 1970s when our movement had its first boom in North America and Europe, thousands of people started becoming devotees and would suddenly stop eating meat, drinking alcohol, taking drugs, and so on. They would even start dressing in a different way. People would think that they were not normal. However, what is normal? If a sane person goes to live in a psychiatric house, he would be considered strange, because he would be different from all the crazy patients.

If one is practicing yoga and does an inverted head pose, he will suddenly see everything upside down. He will see everyone walking on the ceiling. However, this is just because he is in an unnatural situation. As soon as he comes back to his feet he will see that everyone was “normal” the whole time. It was just him that was seeing things upside down due to the position of his body. If there was someone “anormal” it was him.

Similarly, the original condition of the soul is different from what we consider “normal” in this world, a concept that changes according to time and place. You can just imagine the reaction of people to a person dressed in the same fashion people would dress a few centuries ago; they would not consider him or her “normal”. Similarly, most people nowadays eat meat, drink, or sometimes even smoke, habits that would be strongly condemned in Vedic societies from past ages. Nowadays, on the opposite, because most people do these things, people who want to live a pure life are considered “strange”. Our idea of “normal” thus changes over time according to what is in fashion.

However, there is a concept of “normal” that is eternal and doesn’t depend on the seasonalities of this world. This concept is discussed by Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakura in his book “Jaiva Dharma”.

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Seeing the real nature of people

Frequently we become angry at people for things they do or fail to do. We disagree with their opinions and dislike their personalities. This usually applies not for general people, but also to other devotees. Even if a devotee performs some valuable service or shows some good qualities, we may still dislike him or her because of what we perceive as negative traits.

The first thing we may consider is that what we perceive as faults may not really be faults, since we tend to judge people according to our own values and according to what we expect from them. If our own values are mistaken we may think others are mistaken in their judgment, when actually the problem starts with us. Similarly, if we have unrealistic or unfair expectations, we may feel betrayed when a person fails to fulfill them, even if it’s not really their fault.

On the other hand, people may really do wrong things, show bad qualities, and be mistaken in their judgment. Even devotees whom we consider advanced may often do shocking things, to say nothing about regular people. What to do about that?

A point we may consider in such situations is the difference between one’s eternal nature as a soul and the conditioned nature we exhibit during conditioned life.

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Creating a good wife or husband

Often one may see a married woman and become attracted to her, observing her good qualities, mood, or her dedication to the husband and children. Similarly, a lady may become attracted to a married man by observing his reliability, discipline, determination, or other traits. One can thus imagine that if he could somehow attract this person, he or she would behave in the same way, but this idea is often unfounded.

The qualities a married man or lady displays are actually the result of a combination of two persons. In other words, one who feels attracted to a married woman or man is actually feeling attracted to a couple, a combination of two individuals. What this man or woman is now is the result of the combination of what they are with the input they receive from their partner. Happy married persons are thus the fruit of nourishing relationships. They would not be the same in a different environment.

Conversely, a lady who is neglected by her partner may look depressed and unattractive, just like a married man may look irresponsible, unsure, and unreliable. In both cases, they could become completely different in a different environment. We can practically see that often devotees don’t do very well in their first marriages, and after going through a painful process of divorce end up doing much better on the second try. Not that we should divorce of course, but we can see that such cases are quite common. We also have cases of devotees who do relatively well in the first marriage but do much worse in a subsequent marriage.

What we can learn from this?

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